LOVE AND LUST(BOY AND GIRL CONTEXT)PART 1

I have always been confused as to what love between a boy and girl meant.Like what actually is love.So is it like one of these abstract mathematical methods which can be realised only in theory and does not have any physical significance and can be just used an answer as to explain the unexplained.I dont know,but let me tell u how one orkut user defined it

LOVE HAS BEEN CONCEIVED TO UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF HATE BETTER.

sounds funny but does make some sense to me.

lets see how films,movies,novels,magazines define love as.

LOVE IS LIKING SOMETHING OR SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN.

I do agree with this definition partially.

I WOULD STILL LIKE MY PARENTS AND FAMILY THE SAME WAY EVEN IF THEY WERE ANY DIFFERENT.

I WILL ALWAYS LIKE RAHUL DRAVID EVEN IF HE GETS OUT FOR 0 HUNDRED CONSECUTIVE TIME.

BUT AS FAR AS LOVE BETWEEN BOY AND GIRL IS CONCERNED DOES THIS DEFINITION HOLD.

I THINK IT DOES NOT SATISFY THE DEFINITION(in most cases not every).

this so called love is it unconditional.lets see a few cases.
1.IF IT IS WHY ARE THERE BAD BREAK UPS
2.IF ONE OF THEM STARTS DATING SOMEONE ELSE WUD U LOVE OTHER THE SAME WAY AS U HAD BEFORE
3.IF THE OTHER PERSON CANT GIVE U THE TYM U DEMAND WHY DOES THE LOVE STOP.
4.WHY DONT ALL LOVE LEAD TO MARRIAGES
5.WHY DOES LOVE FAIL

1.HAVE U EVER SEEN TWO FRIENDS BREAKING UP
2.HAVE U EVER SEEN A MOTHER DISOWNING HER SON FOR REASON OF NOT BEING ABLE TO GIVE ENOUGH TIME.

i have seen relationships failing for the mere fact of not buying an expensive gift for valentines day.

i have seen relationships fail bcoz the guy/girl found someone more better looking.

so this is my theory

THERE ARE 3 OF LOVERS IN THIS WORLD.

1.PEOPLE WHO LOVE
2.PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY LOVE
3.PEOPLE WHO LOVE THE FEELING OF BEING LOVED AND DONT ACTUALLY LOVE

the first group is a minority,second grp does exist.

the third group is the most common.

the persons ego is satisfied if u know that someone likes u,u like the feeling that someone likes u.u want that feeling to stay and for that u like the someone(if ur lust towards that person is good enough).so u like the other so that the feeling stays with u

this is the premise on which most love stories are built on these days.EGO SATISFACTION.
girlfriend/boyfriend have become symbols of social status,things to be flaunted,which increases ur worth in the society.

it satisfies ur ego when u have a gf and others dont,it gives u a mental high and so u like the person responsible for this.

JUST THIS-U FEED MY EGO AND I FEED URS ,SO THAT WE CAN HAVE OUR EGOS SATISFIED IN THE SOCIETY.

all the views in this post are the thoughts of sreeram and refers to no person,culture,race,country or organisation in general.

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