Friday, December 11, 2009

LOVE AND LUST(BOY AND GIRL CONTEXT)PART 1

I have always been confused as to what love between a boy and girl meant.Like what actually is love.So is it like one of these abstract mathematical methods which can be realised only in theory and does not have any physical significance and can be just used an answer as to explain the unexplained.I dont know,but let me tell u how one orkut user defined it

LOVE HAS BEEN CONCEIVED TO UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF HATE BETTER.

sounds funny but does make some sense to me.

lets see how films,movies,novels,magazines define love as.

LOVE IS LIKING SOMETHING OR SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN.

I do agree with this definition partially.

I WOULD STILL LIKE MY PARENTS AND FAMILY THE SAME WAY EVEN IF THEY WERE ANY DIFFERENT.

I WILL ALWAYS LIKE RAHUL DRAVID EVEN IF HE GETS OUT FOR 0 HUNDRED CONSECUTIVE TIME.

BUT AS FAR AS LOVE BETWEEN BOY AND GIRL IS CONCERNED DOES THIS DEFINITION HOLD.

I THINK IT DOES NOT SATISFY THE DEFINITION(in most cases not every).

this so called love is it unconditional.lets see a few cases.
1.IF IT IS WHY ARE THERE BAD BREAK UPS
2.IF ONE OF THEM STARTS DATING SOMEONE ELSE WUD U LOVE OTHER THE SAME WAY AS U HAD BEFORE
3.IF THE OTHER PERSON CANT GIVE U THE TYM U DEMAND WHY DOES THE LOVE STOP.
4.WHY DONT ALL LOVE LEAD TO MARRIAGES
5.WHY DOES LOVE FAIL

1.HAVE U EVER SEEN TWO FRIENDS BREAKING UP
2.HAVE U EVER SEEN A MOTHER DISOWNING HER SON FOR REASON OF NOT BEING ABLE TO GIVE ENOUGH TIME.

i have seen relationships failing for the mere fact of not buying an expensive gift for valentines day.

i have seen relationships fail bcoz the guy/girl found someone more better looking.

so this is my theory

THERE ARE 3 OF LOVERS IN THIS WORLD.

1.PEOPLE WHO LOVE
2.PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY LOVE
3.PEOPLE WHO LOVE THE FEELING OF BEING LOVED AND DONT ACTUALLY LOVE

the first group is a minority,second grp does exist.

the third group is the most common.

the persons ego is satisfied if u know that someone likes u,u like the feeling that someone likes u.u want that feeling to stay and for that u like the someone(if ur lust towards that person is good enough).so u like the other so that the feeling stays with u

this is the premise on which most love stories are built on these days.EGO SATISFACTION.
girlfriend/boyfriend have become symbols of social status,things to be flaunted,which increases ur worth in the society.

it satisfies ur ego when u have a gf and others dont,it gives u a mental high and so u like the person responsible for this.

JUST THIS-U FEED MY EGO AND I FEED URS ,SO THAT WE CAN HAVE OUR EGOS SATISFIED IN THE SOCIETY.

all the views in this post are the thoughts of sreeram and refers to no person,culture,race,country or organisation in general.

SUGGESTIONS TO IMPROVE THE STYLE OF WRITING OR COMMENTS ON THE CONTENT ARE MOST WELCOME

Sunday, September 20, 2009

LIFE'S GOOD AND PEACEFUL

ITS BEEN A LONG TYM SINCE I HAVE WRITTEN SOMETHING,THERE ARE 3 MAIN REASONS FOR IT

1.IAM LAZY
2.IAM LAZY AND
3.IAM LAZY

NOW I STARTED WRITING(OR TYPING RATHER)BECAUSE I HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO DO AND EVEN MY LAZINESS IS BECAME LAZY AND STOPPED WORKING MAKING ME ACTIVE ONCE AGAIN.

WHEN IAM ACTIVE I DO 3 THINGS
1.SEE CRICKET
2.PLAY CRICKET
3.DISCUSS CRICKET

THOUGH THE FIRST AND 3RD POINTS ARE CONTINUING IAM NOT PLAYING CRICKET BCOZ OF LACK OF FACILITIES AT OUR NEW CAMPUS


YEAH IAM NO MORE IN DELHI BUT IN ROPAR.

ROPAR HAS NOTHING TO BOAST OF,IT DOES NOT HAVE THE MALLS LIKE DELHI,IT DOES NOT HAVE EVERY FRIDAY RELEASE LIKE HYDERABAD,YET ITS GOT SOMETHING WHICH NONE OF THE ABOVE TWO CONCRETE JUNGLES BOAST OF.

PEACE .

ITS A VERY LAZY PLACE WHERE THERE ARE NO TRAFFIC JAMS,NO POLLUTION,NO HOURS OF TRAVEL IF U WANT A QUICK BITE,NOTHING

LOVELY PLACE.

I HAVE BEEN IN METROS,TWO OF THEM HYDERABAD FOR 2 YEARS AND ONE IN DELHI.

HYDERABAD IS BRILLIANT FOR 5 REASONS

1.BIRIYANI
2.NOODLES
3.EVERY FRIDAY SOME MASALA TELUGU FILM RELEASES
4.PEOPLE ARE A BIT OPEN MINDED
5.MANY OF MY RELATIVES ARE DER

NOW DELHI

FRANKLY I LIKED NOTHING ABOUT THIS PLACE EXCEPT THAT HOT CHICKS ARE MUCH MORE COMMON THAN IN HYDERABAD BUT EVEN THAT IS DUE TO VARIOUS PETROLEUM PRODUCTS SPLASHED LIBERALLY ON FACES (that is how i call COSMETICS).

I HATE DELHI FOR 7 REASONS

1.THERE ARE VERY FEW SINGLE SCREENS AND TOO MANY MULTIPLEXES
2.THE POP CORN COSTS MUCH MORE THAN THE TICKET
3.TRAVELLING TO A MULTIPLEX TAKES AS MUCH TIME AS THE FILM ITSELF
4.NO BIRIYANI
5.EVERY FOOD ITEM SEEMS TO BE MADE OF EITHER ALOO OR PANEER AS IF ALL THE VEGETABLES HAVE BECOME EXTINCT
6.SOME PEOPLE ARE AND ACT LIKE PSEUDO INTELLECTUALS(NOT EVERYONE THOUGH)
7.NOT AS OPEN MINDED AS HYDERABAD


NOW COMING TO ROPAR

ULTIMATE PLACE
TWO MOVIE HALLS WHICH MOSTLY SHOW B GRADE FILMS OF THE 90S

EVEN MY FRIENDS HAVE THOUGHT OF GOING TO ONE BUT DROPPED THE IDEA IN VIEW OF THE MINORS

FOOD -GOOD
CHICKEN-ULTIMATE,IF THERE IS ANYTHING WHICH CAN BOAST OF BEING AS GOOD AS HYDERABADI BIRIYANI,IT IS THE CHICKEN IN A DHABHA COOKED IN PUNJABI STYLE

PEOPLE ARE SINCERE AND LOVING
NO SOUND OF TRUCKS,NO METRO PROJECTS BEING CONSTRUCTED,NO TRAFFIC SIGNAL MAKES THIS PLACE SEEM LIKE HEAVEN

MOST IMPORTANT THING-GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL EVEN WITHOUT MAKE UP

THAT EXPLAINS WHY THERE ARE MANY PUNJABI HEROINES IN SOUTH INDIAN MOVIES

BEST OF ALL,ONLY 4 COURSES AND TWO OF THEM ARE EASY,SO LOW WORKLOAD,JUST 15 HRS OF CLASSES PER WEEK

WAT ELSE DOES A STUDENT WANT TO BE HAPPY

IF U HAVE NEVER BEEN IN A SMALL TOWN,U ARE MISSING SOME BLISSFUL MOMENTS

THOUGH IAM NOT AESTHETIC BY ANY STANDARDS THIS PLACE IS IDEAL FOR A LAZY ASS LIKE ME

THOUGH MANY OF MY PEERS LIKE DELHI MORE,I HAVE TAKEN A SPECIAL LIKING TYO THIS PLACE

YES THERE ARE NO MALLS,NO COFFEE SHOPS,NO ,NO MC DONALDS

BUT THAT IS WAT EXACTLY ROCKS ABOUT THIS PLACE FOR ME

I WOULD ON ANY GIVEN DAY SEE A FILM AT A SINGLE SCREEN RATHER THAN A MULTIPLEX,DRINK TEA ON ROADSIDE THAN COFFEE AT BARISTA,HAVE KADAI CHICKEN WITH BUTTER ROTI THAN HAVE SOME RAW VEGETABLES IN BETWEEN TO CHUNKS OF BUN(THATS HOW I CALL A BURGER)

THIS IS REAL INDIA FOR ME,THE TRUEST AND MOST HONEST FORM OF INDIA

THE GLASS HOUSES,BIG STEEL BARS,THE 75RS COFFEE,THE 60RS POP CORN,THE 200 RS MOVIE TICKET,I THINK IS JUST AN ILLUSION WE CREATED FOR OURSELVES TO LOOK AND FEEL BETTER.TO SAY WE ARE LEADING A LAVISH LIFE STYLE.

BUT DEEP IN OUR HEARTS I THINK WE DO(ATLEAST I DO)KNOW WHISTLING AT THE HEROINE OR CLAPPING AT THE PUNCH OF A HEROS DIALOGUE GIVES A VERY GREAT HIGH THAN SIT IN A MULTIPLEX AND EAT POP CORN

SORRY IF I HURT ANYONES SENTIMENTS

ALL THE VIEWS ARE COMPLETELY MY OWN AND THE WEBSITE OR ANYONE ELSE SHALL TAKE NO MORAL RESPONSIBILITY

WAITING FOR UR COMMENTS

Sunday, May 10, 2009

THE KING IS BACK

I HAVE GIVEN BLOGGING A BREAK GIVEN MY TIGHT SCHEDULE THIS SEMESTER.
5 THEORY COURSES,ADD TO THAT CHEMISTRY PRACTICALS,PLUS FRESHMAN SEMINARS MADE LIFE A HELL THIS SEMESTER.

NOT THAT I HAVE WORKED HARD OR ANYTHING,BUT THE CONSTANT FEAR OF WORKLOAD NEVER LET ME ENJOY(THOUGH I HAVENOT WORKED HARD EITHER).
NOW COME HOLIDAYS,A BREATHE OF FRESH AIR.

THEY ARE LIKE WATER IN DESERT,GIRLS AT IIT,VERY RARE BUT U ARE DESPERATE FOR THEM.
DUE TO VARIOUS REASONS WHICH ARE NOT WORTH MENTIONING,I CLEANED UP THE SITE AND AM STARTING AFRESH.HOPE U WUD LIKE IT
TRY TO READ MY BLOG ATLEAST ONCE A WEEK.EITHER WAYS MOST BOYS(ESPECIALLY PEOPLE OF MY HOSTEL) GO ONLINE AND WASTE THEIR TIME TRYING TO GET A SCRAP FROM THEIR EX CRUSH(OR EVEN THE PRESENT ONE).SO TRY WASTING TYM HERE INSTEAD.

AND AS FOR GIRLS,WELL IAM A BIT OF PSYCHO IN MY VIEWS,SO I DONT EXPECT GIRLS TO READ MY BLOG,BUT IF SOMEONE IS EQUALLY MAD AT THE WORLD THEY ARE MOST WELCOME TO SHARE OPINIONS.
BYE FOR TODAY